Skip to content
  • Categories
  • Recent
  • Tags
  • Popular
  • Users
  • Groups
Skins
  • Light
  • Cerulean
  • Cosmo
  • Flatly
  • Journal
  • Litera
  • Lumen
  • Lux
  • Materia
  • Minty
  • Morph
  • Pulse
  • Sandstone
  • Simplex
  • Sketchy
  • Spacelab
  • United
  • Yeti
  • Zephyr
  • Dark
  • Cyborg
  • Darkly
  • Quartz
  • Slate
  • Solar
  • Superhero
  • Vapor

  • Default (No Skin)
  • No Skin
Collapse

The New Coffee Room

  1. TNCR
  2. General Discussion
  3. I got shot again

I got shot again

Scheduled Pinned Locked Moved General Discussion
32 Posts 12 Posters 295 Views
  • Oldest to Newest
  • Newest to Oldest
  • Most Votes
Reply
  • Reply as topic
Log in to reply
This topic has been deleted. Only users with topic management privileges can see it.
  • George KG Offline
    George KG Offline
    George K
    wrote on last edited by
    #20

    Uncontrollable shit happens, and I understand delays.

    "Why is my case late?"
    "Because your surgeon is taking all the time it takes for good care for the person ahead of you. I'll tell him to hurry up on you so the next person doesn't have to wait."

    But you were not given an explanation.

    Had you met Dr. Z before the procedure? Personally, I would never let anyone touch me without having had a long conversation beforehand. I've seen this type of shit, and it just pisses me off. There's a lot to be said about personality and trust. If you're just thrown in with someone unknown, that doesn't build trust. Bad docs don't (usually) get sued more than good ones. Untrustworthy ones do.

    She was NPO for a local procedure? I can maybe understand that if they were going to be doing something which could compromise the airway. Maybe. But, to say "we're going to sedate you," and then not do it is a ... betrayal of trust. Explain WHY the change in plan. I can see reasons NOT to sedate, but an explanation should have been offered.

    Leaving an unattended patient in the hall is a big no-no. Did staff have eyes on her? Did she have access to a call button should she need help?

    Did she have significant pain after the procedure before discharge? If so, she shouldn't be discharged.

    As @Aqua-Letifer said, no answer on the phone? Unacceptable. At least there should be instructions on how to reach someone.

    As you said, Jefferson has a good reputation, but it's crap like this which make you wonder.

    I can't wait to read your strongly-worded letter.

    And yeah, keep us posted on her progress.

    "Now look here, you Baltic gas passer... " - Mik, 6/14/08

    The saying, "Lite is just one damn thing after another," is a gross understatement. The damn things overlap.

    1 Reply Last reply
    • JollyJ Offline
      JollyJ Offline
      Jolly
      wrote on last edited by
      #21

      An absolute shit show and I would be chewing off a manager's ears, relishing every bite.

      But...Right now, medicine is in flux, with some places better off than others. There has been a big shift in personnel and a huge increase in travelers.

      Does not make for good care.

      “Cry havoc and let slip the DOGE of war!”

      Those who cheered as J-6 American prisoners were locked in solitary for 18 months without trial, now suddenly fight tooth and nail for foreign terrorists’ "due process". — Buck Sexton

      1 Reply Last reply
      • HoraceH Online
        HoraceH Online
        Horace
        wrote on last edited by
        #22

        What a nightmare. Sorry to hear that IT. I hope MS recovers soon.

        Education is extremely important.

        1 Reply Last reply
        • LuFins DadL Offline
          LuFins DadL Offline
          LuFins Dad
          wrote on last edited by
          #23

          For crying out loud.. So sorry MS had to go through this.

          The Brad

          1 Reply Last reply
          • CopperC Offline
            CopperC Offline
            Copper
            wrote on last edited by
            #24

            That is a really bad story.

            I can sit quietly and fold my hands for hours, no problem.

            But I can't wait hours if I'm expecting to wait minutes.

            1 Reply Last reply
            • brendaB Offline
              brendaB Offline
              brenda
              wrote on last edited by
              #25

              IT, this is worthy of one of your best and strongest communications to voice your righteous outrage at such treatment, or lack thereof, for MS. Is your attorney available to assist with this communication to the medical facility?

              Best wishes to MS for relief of her long Covid issues. ❤️

              IvorythumperI 1 Reply Last reply
              • brendaB brenda

                IT, this is worthy of one of your best and strongest communications to voice your righteous outrage at such treatment, or lack thereof, for MS. Is your attorney available to assist with this communication to the medical facility?

                Best wishes to MS for relief of her long Covid issues. ❤️

                IvorythumperI Offline
                IvorythumperI Offline
                Ivorythumper
                wrote on last edited by
                #26

                @brenda said in I got shot again:

                IT, this is worthy of one of your best and strongest communications to voice your righteous outrage at such treatment, or lack thereof, for MS. Is your attorney available to assist with this communication to the medical facility?

                Best wishes to MS for relief of her long Covid issues. ❤️

                Thanks to all for the good wishes and insights.

                Dr Z called the next morning. Turns out he hadn't been out of the country as Dr P had said, but was leaving for vacay. We're still not clear about the timing issue if he had been there in the morning for the scheduled procedure but a whole series of other scheduling conflicts for the CT tube delayed everything too long... He really should have come up to see us if he were going to do a hand off, tell us what was going on, introduce us to Dr P who is a 6th year musculoskeletal fellow who has done 19 of these procedures under Dr Z's supervision, etc...

                Turns out the bad pain is (Deo gratia) not connected but perhaps having been strained on the hard CT table where MS was strapped in a contorted position. Again, no chill pills to relax her?

                MS is feeling better. We'll see if the procedure takes -- the timeline is peculiar, like some minor recovery of taste and smell after 12 hours, then it might go away and come back on day 3.

                As for complaining or ginning up a lawyer, I don't see any payable damages here -- and lawyers tend to attract lawyers. Dr Z was extremely apologetic, and promised to do a root cause when he returns. We have a laundry list, and if he's interested to fix the problems in his work flow and make a much better patient experience, then MS is the person to talk to: she does operational risk analysis for a living.

                Additionally, we want really good relationships with these docs because they are the best hope for MS's healing, which is all we care about. And we want to get into the PRP study, which is being done by the same hospital. We don't want to be seen as the least bit litigious or troublesome. Some things are a lot more important.

                Again, thanks for everyone's thoughts and prayers.

                George KG brendaB 3 Replies Last reply
                • IvorythumperI Ivorythumper

                  @brenda said in I got shot again:

                  IT, this is worthy of one of your best and strongest communications to voice your righteous outrage at such treatment, or lack thereof, for MS. Is your attorney available to assist with this communication to the medical facility?

                  Best wishes to MS for relief of her long Covid issues. ❤️

                  Thanks to all for the good wishes and insights.

                  Dr Z called the next morning. Turns out he hadn't been out of the country as Dr P had said, but was leaving for vacay. We're still not clear about the timing issue if he had been there in the morning for the scheduled procedure but a whole series of other scheduling conflicts for the CT tube delayed everything too long... He really should have come up to see us if he were going to do a hand off, tell us what was going on, introduce us to Dr P who is a 6th year musculoskeletal fellow who has done 19 of these procedures under Dr Z's supervision, etc...

                  Turns out the bad pain is (Deo gratia) not connected but perhaps having been strained on the hard CT table where MS was strapped in a contorted position. Again, no chill pills to relax her?

                  MS is feeling better. We'll see if the procedure takes -- the timeline is peculiar, like some minor recovery of taste and smell after 12 hours, then it might go away and come back on day 3.

                  As for complaining or ginning up a lawyer, I don't see any payable damages here -- and lawyers tend to attract lawyers. Dr Z was extremely apologetic, and promised to do a root cause when he returns. We have a laundry list, and if he's interested to fix the problems in his work flow and make a much better patient experience, then MS is the person to talk to: she does operational risk analysis for a living.

                  Additionally, we want really good relationships with these docs because they are the best hope for MS's healing, which is all we care about. And we want to get into the PRP study, which is being done by the same hospital. We don't want to be seen as the least bit litigious or troublesome. Some things are a lot more important.

                  Again, thanks for everyone's thoughts and prayers.

                  George KG Offline
                  George KG Offline
                  George K
                  wrote on last edited by George K
                  #27

                  @Ivorythumper said in I got shot again:

                  As for complaining or ginning up a lawyer, I don't see any payable damages here -- and lawyers tend to attract lawyers

                  Malpractice needs three conditions to be met:

                  1. Harm occurred. Proving "emotional" harm is a steep hill to climb.
                  2. The harm occurred because of acts performed by the physician.
                  3. (and this is most important) The acts performed by the physician were outside the standard of care.

                  It's good that Dr. Z reached out to you, and that he's going to look into the "workflow" problems. None of these are a big deal, from a medical standpoint. But they are a HUGE deal when it comes to patient care, which was, in this case beyond shoddy.

                  It was a cluster. Hopefully it'll not recur.

                  As I said in an earlier post, Jefferson has a great reputation. Hopefully this series of events will provoke some introspection beyond just what the medical outcomes are, and look at the entire patient experience.

                  Thanks for the update, IT. And, by all means, a strongly-worded letter is appropriate, just for the sake of leaving a trail.

                  "Now look here, you Baltic gas passer... " - Mik, 6/14/08

                  The saying, "Lite is just one damn thing after another," is a gross understatement. The damn things overlap.

                  1 Reply Last reply
                  • IvorythumperI Ivorythumper

                    @brenda said in I got shot again:

                    IT, this is worthy of one of your best and strongest communications to voice your righteous outrage at such treatment, or lack thereof, for MS. Is your attorney available to assist with this communication to the medical facility?

                    Best wishes to MS for relief of her long Covid issues. ❤️

                    Thanks to all for the good wishes and insights.

                    Dr Z called the next morning. Turns out he hadn't been out of the country as Dr P had said, but was leaving for vacay. We're still not clear about the timing issue if he had been there in the morning for the scheduled procedure but a whole series of other scheduling conflicts for the CT tube delayed everything too long... He really should have come up to see us if he were going to do a hand off, tell us what was going on, introduce us to Dr P who is a 6th year musculoskeletal fellow who has done 19 of these procedures under Dr Z's supervision, etc...

                    Turns out the bad pain is (Deo gratia) not connected but perhaps having been strained on the hard CT table where MS was strapped in a contorted position. Again, no chill pills to relax her?

                    MS is feeling better. We'll see if the procedure takes -- the timeline is peculiar, like some minor recovery of taste and smell after 12 hours, then it might go away and come back on day 3.

                    As for complaining or ginning up a lawyer, I don't see any payable damages here -- and lawyers tend to attract lawyers. Dr Z was extremely apologetic, and promised to do a root cause when he returns. We have a laundry list, and if he's interested to fix the problems in his work flow and make a much better patient experience, then MS is the person to talk to: she does operational risk analysis for a living.

                    Additionally, we want really good relationships with these docs because they are the best hope for MS's healing, which is all we care about. And we want to get into the PRP study, which is being done by the same hospital. We don't want to be seen as the least bit litigious or troublesome. Some things are a lot more important.

                    Again, thanks for everyone's thoughts and prayers.

                    George KG Offline
                    George KG Offline
                    George K
                    wrote on last edited by
                    #28

                    @Ivorythumper said in I got shot again:

                    And we want to get into the PRP study, which is being done by the same hospital. We don't want to be seen as the least bit litigious or troublesome. Some things are a lot more important.

                    "Seit night ein troublesucher."

                    "Now look here, you Baltic gas passer... " - Mik, 6/14/08

                    The saying, "Lite is just one damn thing after another," is a gross understatement. The damn things overlap.

                    Catseye3C 1 Reply Last reply
                    • George KG George K

                      @Ivorythumper said in I got shot again:

                      And we want to get into the PRP study, which is being done by the same hospital. We don't want to be seen as the least bit litigious or troublesome. Some things are a lot more important.

                      "Seit night ein troublesucher."

                      Catseye3C Offline
                      Catseye3C Offline
                      Catseye3
                      wrote on last edited by
                      #29

                      @George-K said in I got shot again:

                      Seit night

                      Seit nicht, I think you mean.

                      Success is measured by your discipline and inner peace. – Mike Ditka

                      George KG 1 Reply Last reply
                      • Catseye3C Catseye3

                        @George-K said in I got shot again:

                        Seit night

                        Seit nicht, I think you mean.

                        George KG Offline
                        George KG Offline
                        George K
                        wrote on last edited by
                        #30

                        @Catseye3 said in I got shot again:

                        Seit night

                        FUCK YOU, autocorrect!

                        "Now look here, you Baltic gas passer... " - Mik, 6/14/08

                        The saying, "Lite is just one damn thing after another," is a gross understatement. The damn things overlap.

                        1 Reply Last reply
                        • IvorythumperI Ivorythumper

                          @brenda said in I got shot again:

                          IT, this is worthy of one of your best and strongest communications to voice your righteous outrage at such treatment, or lack thereof, for MS. Is your attorney available to assist with this communication to the medical facility?

                          Best wishes to MS for relief of her long Covid issues. ❤️

                          Thanks to all for the good wishes and insights.

                          Dr Z called the next morning. Turns out he hadn't been out of the country as Dr P had said, but was leaving for vacay. We're still not clear about the timing issue if he had been there in the morning for the scheduled procedure but a whole series of other scheduling conflicts for the CT tube delayed everything too long... He really should have come up to see us if he were going to do a hand off, tell us what was going on, introduce us to Dr P who is a 6th year musculoskeletal fellow who has done 19 of these procedures under Dr Z's supervision, etc...

                          Turns out the bad pain is (Deo gratia) not connected but perhaps having been strained on the hard CT table where MS was strapped in a contorted position. Again, no chill pills to relax her?

                          MS is feeling better. We'll see if the procedure takes -- the timeline is peculiar, like some minor recovery of taste and smell after 12 hours, then it might go away and come back on day 3.

                          As for complaining or ginning up a lawyer, I don't see any payable damages here -- and lawyers tend to attract lawyers. Dr Z was extremely apologetic, and promised to do a root cause when he returns. We have a laundry list, and if he's interested to fix the problems in his work flow and make a much better patient experience, then MS is the person to talk to: she does operational risk analysis for a living.

                          Additionally, we want really good relationships with these docs because they are the best hope for MS's healing, which is all we care about. And we want to get into the PRP study, which is being done by the same hospital. We don't want to be seen as the least bit litigious or troublesome. Some things are a lot more important.

                          Again, thanks for everyone's thoughts and prayers.

                          brendaB Offline
                          brendaB Offline
                          brenda
                          wrote on last edited by brenda
                          #31

                          @Ivorythumper

                          Glad to hear the main doc is back and working to keep the relationship positive. You are wise to keep things positive for staying in the study program. The bigger picture is important, and now that he's aware, I doubt the doc will allow such mishaps to reoccur.

                          Please let us know if MS sees improvement from all this. She certainly deserves a good outcome for putting up with such treatment.

                          1 Reply Last reply
                          • taiwan_girlT Offline
                            taiwan_girlT Offline
                            taiwan_girl
                            wrote on last edited by
                            #32

                            @Ivorythumper So sorry to hear about all of this. 😞

                            Any updates?

                            1 Reply Last reply
                            Reply
                            • Reply as topic
                            Log in to reply
                            • Oldest to Newest
                            • Newest to Oldest
                            • Most Votes


                            • Login

                            • Don't have an account? Register

                            • Login or register to search.
                            • First post
                              Last post
                            0
                            • Categories
                            • Recent
                            • Tags
                            • Popular
                            • Users
                            • Groups