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A bad cat day today

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  • George KG Offline
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    George K
    wrote on last edited by George K
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    D4 has had her cat, "Addy" since she was a kitten. Addy has been with D4 for 14 years.

    You couldn't ask for a better cat. Tolerant of everyone, never, EVER, aggressive. No bites, no claws, no hisses.

    In the last 2 months, Addy's been vomiting. She's also been losing weight. So, D4 took her to the vet about 3 weeks ago. Blood work revealed what's probably pancreatitis (I guess this is pretty common in cats). She's anemic as well. At that time she had an abdominal ultrasound.

    After several ups and downs, D4 ended up hospitalizing Addy this weekend. Yesterday, she was a bit better at the vet's, so she brought her home.

    And that's when the decline started.

    Over the last 36 hours, Addy's struggled. Struggling to breathe, not falling asleep, and just refusing to let go.

    Today, we learned the results of the ultrasound - there is a mass in her liver. Probably incurable.

    D4 made the decision that it was time, and Addy was euthanized at about 4:30 this afternoon. We babysat G2 when she and SIL took her in. Mrs. George noted that Addy seemed cachectic, and yet, her belly was still full. My guess is ascites as a result of her liver disease.

    So, anyhow, RIP, good cat. Sweet, friendly, calm and tolerant. You couldn't ask for a better pet that you've had for almost half of your life.

    When G2 was about one year old...

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    "Now look here, you Baltic gas passer... " - Mik, 6/14/08

    The saying, "Lite is just one damn thing after another," is a gross understatement. The damn things overlap.

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    • MikM Offline
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      Mik
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      Such awful days. I often think harder than when our human conn cations pass because with pets we have to be involved and making decisions.

      “I am fond of pigs. Dogs look up to us. Cats look down on us. Pigs treat us as equals.” ~Winston S. Churchill

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      • George KG Offline
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        George K
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        D3 cooments:

        You know, I’ve done this 4 times in the last 7 years and it never gets easier. It’s a shitty shitty feeling. One thing that’s helped me get through it is thinking of how crappy their life would have been without you adopting her. You did great with her.

        Remember, D3 was Mr. Whiskers’ mom.

        "Now look here, you Baltic gas passer... " - Mik, 6/14/08

        The saying, "Lite is just one damn thing after another," is a gross understatement. The damn things overlap.

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        • markM Offline
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          #4

          Sorry to hear this George.

          Mozart is now 16. As much as I am not a cat person, he is a great cat and has worked his way into my heart over the years. I will be very sad when his time comes.

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          • HoraceH Online
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            RIP Addy.

            Education is extremely important.

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            • JollyJ Offline
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              Losing friends hurts.

              “Cry havoc and let slip the DOGE of war!”

              Those who cheered as J-6 American prisoners were locked in solitary for 18 months without trial, now suddenly fight tooth and nail for foreign terrorists’ "due process". — Buck Sexton

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                What a wonderful kitty, and a great experience for your grandchild.

                Enjoy the catnip fields in heaven, sweet kitty.

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                • Catseye3C Offline
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                  Very sorry. Condolences to you and your family.

                  As painful an experience as there is.

                  Success is measured by your discipline and inner peace. – Mike Ditka

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                  • taiwan_girlT Offline
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                    Sorry to hear that, but probably was best for Addy. I remember reading something about how animals live very much "in the moment". And when they are in very terrible pain/health, it is not fair to prolong things for them.

                    But still, it is a very tough thing to lose a pet. 😔

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